By Mohammad Iftakhar Ahmad | shifa120.com | April 2026
I planned to work abroad for 3 to 4 years. That was the plan. Today, more than 20 years later, I am still here. Same story. Different years. And around me the same pattern repeating in the lives of thousands of men I have known, worked with, and watched slowly lose their health without understanding why.
The Scale of the Problem — In Numbers
Before I share what I have personally observed over two decades, let me give you some numbers that stopped me when I first read them.
India alone has over 101 million people living with Type 2 Diabetes — the highest number of any country in the world. Every 5 seconds, somewhere in Asia, another person is diagnosed with diabetes. The International Diabetes Federation estimates that by 2045, more than 300 million people in South and South-East Asia will be diabetic.
But here is what the statistics do not capture: a significant proportion of these cases are developing not just from genetics or diet back home — but from the specific lifestyle that millions of Asian men are living as expat workers abroad. The stress, the food, the isolation, the loss of routine — these are silent accelerators of a disease that was already waiting.
Diabetes is growing fastest not just in cities and villages back home — but among the millions of Asian workers who left home to build a better life and unknowingly began destroying their health in the process.
My Plan Was 3 to 4 Years — It Became 20
I want to tell you something very personal. Because I believe it is the same story that millions of men are living right now — they just have not said it out loud yet.
When I left India for the Gulf, I had a clear plan. Three years — maybe four. Earn good money. Save. Go back. Build something at home. Be with my family.
Twenty years later — I am still here.
What happened? The same thing that happens to almost every Asian expat worker I have ever known. The plan was right. The execution went wrong somewhere. The years kept moving. The responsibilities kept growing. The reasons to stay kept multiplying. The children’s school fees. The house being built back home. The aging parents who needed support. The loan that needed paying. One more year. Just one more year.
And while all of this was happening — while I was keeping all these plates spinning — nobody was watching my health. Not properly. Not consistently. Including me.
I did not choose to spend 20 years away from my family. I chose 3 to 4 years — and life kept extending the contract. This is the real story of most Asian expat workers. And it is during these extended years — not the first few — that the health damage accumulates.
What I Actually Observed Over 20 Years
I am an engineer. I observe systems. I notice patterns. And over two decades of working in industrial environments with thousands of fellow Asian expat workers, I have observed the same pattern repeating so consistently that I can almost predict what will happen to a man’s health based on how he is living at 30.
Here is what I saw — honestly, and with respect to everyone involved.
Observation 1 — The Company Canteen Problem
In most industrial worksites, workers eat in company canteens — mass catering facilities that feed hundreds or thousands of men at the same time. The food is provided. The worker has no choice.
I have eaten in these canteens. I know what is served. White rice in enormous quantities. Heavily oiled curries. Bread. Sweet tea. Occasionally some vegetables — but as a side thought, not a main feature. The food is filling. It is familiar. It tastes of home.
And it is — nutritionally speaking — a daily dose of everything that causes blood sugar problems.
The worker did not choose this menu. He cannot change it. He eats what is in front of him because there is nothing else. Three times a day. Seven days a week. Month after month. Year after year.
I watched strong, healthy men arrive from India or Pakistan and within two to three years develop a heaviness — a physical slowing down — that they accepted as normal. Because everyone around them was the same. When your reference point is people who are also getting unhealthy, you stop noticing that you are getting unhealthy.
The canteen is not the enemy. The management is not the enemy. The system was built for convenience and cost — not for health. But the consequence lands on the individual worker’s body. And he carries that consequence alone.
Observation 2 — Money Creates Both Kinds of Stress
Here is something I observed that surprised me when I first understood it clearly: it does not matter whether a worker is earning well or struggling financially. Both create stress. Different kinds of stress — but both damaging.
The worker who is struggling financially lives with constant anxiety. Every month is a calculation. Every unexpected expense is a crisis. He calls home and hears that the school fees are due or the harvest failed or his mother needs treatment — and he has nothing extra to send. This kind of stress is acute and visible.
But the worker who is earning well carries a different stress — and it is in some ways more dangerous because it is invisible. He has money. He is successful by the standards of his community. So nobody asks how he is really doing. Nobody checks whether the success is costing him something.
What it costs him is presence. The more he earns, the more his family depends on that income. The more they depend on it, the harder it becomes to stop. He becomes a prisoner of his own success — unable to go back because too many people are depending on what he sends every month.
I have lived both sides of this. I understand both kinds of stress from inside. And I can tell you that both — whether from scarcity or from the weight of success — elevate cortisol, disrupt sleep, damage blood sugar, and raise blood pressure over time.
Money does not protect you from the health consequences of expat stress. Whether you have too little or more than enough to go back — both situations create a trap. And inside that trap, the body slowly breaks down.
Observation 3 — The Lifestyle Nobody Prepared Us For
This is the observation I feel most strongly about. Because I believe it is the root of everything else.
Nobody prepared us.
When we left home in our twenties — full of energy and ambition — nobody sat us down and said: here is how you manage your time when you are living alone. Here is how you eat when no one is cooking for you. Here is how you handle stress when your support system is thousands of kilometres away. Here is how much sleep you actually need. Here is what happens to your body when you ignore all of this for 10 or 15 or 20 years.
We were taught how to work. We were not taught how to live.
Back home — in a joint family, in a community — many of these things were automatic. Your mother cooked. Your family kept you grounded. Your routine was built around prayer times and family meals and community obligations. You did not have to think about it. It just happened.
Abroad — all of that disappears overnight. And in its place comes complete freedom with no structure. You can eat anything, sleep any time, spend money on anything, fill your evenings with anything. That freedom sounds like a gift. For a young man with no framework for how to use it — it is a slow disaster.
The Asian expat health crisis is not just a food problem or a stress problem or a sleep problem. It is a fundamental life skills problem. We were never taught the basic disciplines that make a human life sustainable across decades.
The Borderline I Wish I Had Understood at 22
I have been thinking about this for a long time. And I believe I have identified something important — something I call the borderline.
The borderline is the invisible threshold between a life that is building you and a life that is consuming you. Between working hard and being consumed by work. Between earning well and losing yourself in the earning. Between sacrificing for your family and sacrificing your health so thoroughly that you have nothing left to give them.
Most of us cross this borderline without knowing it. We cross it somewhere between Year 3 and Year 7 of the expat life — when the plan has already extended once, when the responsibilities have grown, when going back no longer feels simple.
If I could go back and speak to myself at 22 — the young man who was about to get on a plane to start a new life — I would tell him four things:
- Learn how to use your time — every hour of every day has a purpose. Time wasted at 22 cannot be recovered at 50.
- Learn how to use your money — not just how to earn it, but how to grow it, protect it, and make it work for your future so you are not trapped by it at 40.
- Learn what to eat and how much — your body is the vehicle for everything you want to achieve. If the vehicle breaks down, everything stops.
- Learn how to complete your work — personal, professional, and social commitments — on time and with full attention. Half-done work at 25 becomes a habit of incompletion that follows you for life.
These are not complicated life skills. They are basic. They are the foundation on which everything else is built. But nobody teaches them formally. Nobody sits a 22-year-old down before he gets on that plane and says: these four things will determine whether the next 20 years build you or break you.
I learned all four of these lessons — but I learned them the hard way. Through years of getting it wrong. Through a diabetes diagnosis that shocked me into action. Through the slow realisation that the plan I had made at 25 had gone wrong somewhere — not because I was not working hard enough, but because I was not living wisely enough.
What I Found — And What I Am Building
The reason I am writing this article — and the reason I built shifa120.com — is not just to share my health story. It is to share what I found when I started asking the right questions.
I found that the health crisis among Asian expat workers is real, it is growing, and it is largely preventable. I found that with a structured daily discipline — not expensive treatments, not complicated programmes — a person can reverse years of lifestyle damage and reclaim their health.
I did it at 54. With a real medical diagnosis. With real numbers. And I documented every step.
But I also found something bigger. I found that the health problem and the life management problem are the same problem. The person who cannot manage their time cannot protect their sleep. The person who cannot manage their money cannot reduce their stress. The person who has never learned food discipline cannot change what they eat under pressure.
Everything is connected. The body and the life are one system.
Over the coming weeks and months, I am going to share everything I have found — on this blog, in practical articles, in free resources — covering health, discipline, money, time, food, sleep, and the specific challenges of the expat life.
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Important Disclaimer
I am not a doctor or medical professional. Everything in this article is based on my personal observations over 20+ years of working life and my personal experience of reversing Type 2 Diabetes and Hypertension through lifestyle change. This is not medical advice. Please consult your doctor before making changes to your diet, medication, or health routine. Never stop medication without medical supervision.
Mohammad Iftakhar Ahmad
Author — The 120-Day Miracle
Systems Integration Engineer | 20+ Years Gulf Experience
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